dev(ci): add --break-system-packages to pip install

Partially resolves #8025

Only use break system install on macos

Try extra brew install

Brew install on mac, pip install on rest

Try using windows-2019 instead of latest (2022)

Back to original windows

.github/workflows/nodejs.yml

@@ -28,7 +28,12 @@ jobs:
         with:
           node-version: ${{ env.NODE_VERSION }}
       - name: Fix node-gyp and Python
-        run: python3 -m pip install packaging setuptools --break-system-packages || python3 -m pip install packaging setuptools
+        run: |
+          if [[ "$RUNNER_OS" == "macOS" ]]; then
+            brew install python-setuptools python-packaging
+          else
+            python3 -m pip install $EXTRA_ARGS packaging setuptools
+          fi
       - name: Get yarn cache directory path
         id: yarn-cache-dir-path
         run: echo "dir=$(yarn cache dir)" >> $GITHUB_OUTPUT